Originally Posted by
m1k3 
He can't compromise your values and beliefs, they are yours, not his. Maybe what is bothering you is that you are compromising your values and beliefs by accepting his behavior?
Your friend,
Yes, thanks for the clarification. In the letter I did tell him that I felt I was compromising my values but it came out wrong when I typed up my quick response here. And, yes, that is what bothers me and why I am so freakin' stuck in making a decision? I don't know if it's fear that's paralyzing me, I don't know if it's hope for a better tomorrow because surely he'll figure it out himself soon, right? Maybe it's just sheer stupidity on my part? I don't know, all I know is that I am so tied to this guy emotionally and financially that I can't see my hand in front of my face. And, that's me just being plain old honest with myself as much as it sucks.