Originally Posted by
LaTeeDa 
That is exactly why this board, Alanon, and codependency exist. If they were flaming jerks 100% of the time, there would be no problem kicking them to the curb, right? It's exactly the inconsistency that keeps us hooked.L
That is one reason I keep coming back to this board because reading the posts just validates the reason why I left him. Recently the doctors have told him his liver is at it's end he has stopped drinking and actually is normal when we talk which gets my emotions going again and I think . . . then I come here and I remember why I left in the first place.