So my friend gave me the codependent no more book and I just started reading it....since my last post my boyfriend is clean been a week today and I've kindof shut myself off from him a lil I havennt been focussing so much on him but on my and reading and my daughter we are stilll together buthe now sleeps down stairs and I sleep wit my daughter in her room.. things are still head and ever day a struggle but its gettin a lot well alittle better because I'm not so focussed on his recovory but mine