I think you'd find that in relating, rather than comparing, you'll find our stories are essentially the same. Maybe we have different details. The person who goes to the weekend-long family reunion and stays sober can offer his or her experience on what it might be like to be surrounded by your colleagues who are all drinking. If you focus on the feelings and thinking of alcoholism, not the details, you'll find what you need.
Peace & Love,
Sugah