I read your other posts and pulled these facts out:
You are recently divorced.
She has a boyfriend she has lived with for about a year.
She and her boyfriend are alcoholics/meth addicts.
She has lost her job due to addictions.
She and her bf have both been arrested for DV.
When she called to profess her love to you, she was drunk.
Her house is trashed.
She recently stopped talking to you, cut back on texting.
She has no friends or job references.
She said tried AA but it didn’t work for her, says she needs to change, but no action.
You have posted:
“it all confirms the sad truth and reality that I know... that there is nothing i can do to help someone like this.”
I've always believed God speaks to us thru other and he's speaking loud and clear here. Just pray for me to find strength to not make contact with her. I'll pray for her and if she needs a friend I'll be one. But I'm going to try to learn from this experience and move on. Thank you.
This really seems like a no-brainer. I'm sure you are struggling with your recent divorce, but what you need to focus on now is yourself. When you are ready for a relationship, make it a healthy one where someone can give to you as well as receive.
The weekend is here, and the weather is beautiful. Go out and enjoy yourself. Find some positive people and things to do. Starting over is hard. Don't make it harder.