Well I spoke to my friend and set very clear boundaries that any personal meeting or communication with my XAB is not acceptable to me and it will negatively affect our relationship. She agreed and said she understands how she's just a pawn in his game. I'm so hurt if she decides to go but I can't control it.
Truthfully I'm more upset with her than anything. Sucks when you feel a close friend doesn't seem to have your back.
I'm a bit calmer now but a little scared as he clearly will stop at nothing.
Very disturbing pre meditated behavior.
I'm hurt but I'll heel. Just so pissed at my girlfriend. He wanted them to go out Witt him cause he lonely and wanted laughs and hyjinks....very professional.