Originally Posted by
anvilhead 
He sent me a text basically saying it's my fault if our family is homeless and hungry.
classic addict got caught deflection...HE is the one taking the drugs, he is the one out of control, threatening, harmful and dangerous, it was his actions that led the neighbors to call the cops, and he is the one in the military AND KNOWS THE RULES AND BROKE THEM ANYWAY.
he put his job in jeopardy. he puts the use of drugs ahead of the welfare of his family.
you have nothing to feel sorry about. i really encourage you to get some help and assistance for you!! alanon, counseling, financial guidance. you have to put you and your baby's welfare ahead of everything else.
Thank you so much. I know all of what you are saying is true. It's hard not to feel guilty when the person you love is angry at you. I can't help it because I want him to be happy, but at the same time, at what expense??