Knowing someone has lived what I lived or watched what I have brings me no comfort, and I wouldn’t wish this on anyone, nor do I wallow in the misery playing that well at least I don‘t go through what they do. It might show me I am not alone, but honestly that isn’t real comforting either…
Others stories can and do become a great distraction for those not ready to work on themselves. A place like this for me will be a learning tool. I am still teachable, and hope to remain that way.