Gawd do I feel nutty- since posting initially ive run the gamut of reactions from Codie I'll call & fix it to steaming mad w zero compassion for my friend & losing sight of the reality that I was her last year; making excuses, thinking acts of manipulation were actual kindness bc I so badly wanted to believe it... And now I'm feeling calm again,SO Grateful for the wisdom & experience of all here. I've done the hotel thing w the girls more than I can count but it's always obvious it's bc I'm scared & upset. I'll be booking something tonight & itll be nothing but a fun adventure for the girls
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Thanks for all the perspective! Had I reacted initially as I planned to I'd surely be regretting it by now. I'm thankful for the advice from all of you!
PS. Typing on my phone SUCKS so forgive crazy autocorrect spelling errors please