WTBH - he certainly has a few screws loose, eh? This is the same guy who you "abused" and had to go to court over the charges, correct? Does anyone else in your life connect the dots here? That this is madness?
I am not sure I would be so kind at this point - but I understand you have to tread lightly because its a hornet's nest.
Sometimes I think you'd be better off in the witness protection program. Any chance of that happening in the near future? ; )
Happy 40th, by the way. Just turned the big 4-0 myself.