In a real and healthy relationship, you could enjoy a vacation to the beach, soak up some sun, sightsee, go to dinner, walk on the beach.
That's what I wanted to do. Instead I watched him drink way too much and go to the hotel bar alone when I refused to join in. Instead when he returned an hour later i ended up sleeping in my car for a few hours until he passed out around 3 am.
In a normal relationship you dont wake up at 5am while on vacation covered with someone else's ****, shower and go try to do things on your own while your "soulmate" sleeps it off.
And finally this would not be blamed on the fact that you had three glasses of wine.
Thankfully I know what I want from my next partner, and will settle for no less. There are much worse things than being single.