Zeiger - I can relate to your situation and this is my first day back here since 2010. My drinking has become out of control recently, loosing contact with friends and family and my job being jeopardized. I've decided once again to quit drinking cuz I know it will get better over time. If you pull the plug from the alcohol and stick with it, you too will be a much better person. I'll bet your girlfriend will find the same.
Glad to meet you! :ghug3