Originally Posted by
MySistersCodie 
So do I go back on giving her a second chance and give her til either her next relapse or October (whatever comes first) or do I tell her she needs to go now before it gets to that point? I will help her look for a roomas I have committed to do in order to have her out by October. I know she cannot live with me past October because I will go crazy and our already strained relationship will be destroyed and potentially my marriage as well.
You have every right to change your mind at any time about any deal you made with her. After all, she is not honoring the deal either. All bets are off. Nor should you feel obligated to "help her find a roommate"....she'll find a million reasons to decline whatever you find anyway, right?
Your husband deserves a special treat!!