Originally Posted by
choublak 
I don't think anyone should be sympathetic to or stay in a relationship with an abusive person. Sorry if I came off that way.
Well, you do. My ex most likely did have depression, bipolar, or maybe ADHD. Did it matter, did he care? No, he didn't So, I will state again, if someone has some medical condition, and is trying to get help for themself, then I would be sympathetic.
And again, I didn't count to 1000 after reading this, but if I am banned that is ok.
If someone is hurting another person, I really don't care why, or what excuses they have, if you have a medical condition, then go see a doctor, go to therapy, and if needed, go on meds.
Just don't keep hoping or demanding that people will give you leeway or sympathy for your medical condition, if you are hurting the people around you, and not doing anything to help yourself to be a better person.
Don't expect a free card just because. And IMHO you hijacked this, to make it about you, instead of the OP.
So can we continue with the OP? and leave your issues into your own thread?