We love and accept you just the way you are :-). And you are completely and unconditionally accepted in this group.
It takes a lot of strength and courage to admit publicly that you believe you have an issue with wanting to be liked and accepted. I think most of us want that, Yogagirl. I found that was a "problem" for me, too. I spent a lot of time in the past pleasing others, doing things to gain acceptance, and being dependent on others for my happiness and well-being. The light-bulb turned on for me a couple years ago when I got divorced, and subsequently spent a lot of time on my own while working on gaining a greater sense of independence, as opposed to depending on the reactions and emotions of others. If that makes sense?
Good on ya for posting your feelings!