Thanks. It's just incredibly frustrating and sad when she cries and whines that none of us will help her, even though we've done EVERYTHING in our power over the past several years, and at this point, there is nothing we can do, because she needs professional help, which we have made clear. I was the one who thought to contact her friend and I asked her (my mother) if it would be okay, because that was the only other thing I could do to help, and she said yes. But that's all we can do, and she doesn't get that. I know that's the problem, but still.