Originally Posted by
Kiana 
My comfort in that was that although my H of 20+ plus years had lived a lie, I had not. My life with him had been lived honestly and sincerely, giving freely from a trusting, loving heart, while he lived a life of deception at the expense of trusting hearts. His life was a lie, not mine.
Kiana - thank you so very much for sharing this perspective. I can feel the weight of my situation (15 years of deceit)lifting already.
Your words are perfect.