Originally Posted by
Kiana 
My comfort in that was that although my H of 20+ plus years had lived a lie, I had not. My life with him had been lived honestly and sincerely, giving freely from a trusting, loving heart, while he lived a life of deception at the expense of trusting hearts. His life was a lie, not mine.
Kiana, thank you for this. I needed so much to hear that. It reminds me that I still must love and trust others even if they aren't always trustworthy. I still have to protect myself and my son, but I can learn to trust again in time. Maybe even trust my AH someday.