Hello Sanity2012,
I am so glad you found this place. What a terrible thing to happen to you. After 26 years of sobriety. I am grateful for the reminder that my 15 + years means nothing really, just one day at a time.
A complete turnaround in a manner of six months? I have not known anyone that has that long sober and went back, but it is true about going back to where you dropped off.
Now that he has decided on a divorce, I see you are going to AlAnon.
It is so important that you do get it out and get support for yourself.
Do you have friends and family nearby? They could be helpful too.
Please come here when ever you feel the need to get it out.
This is a wonderful forum with great people who have experience strength and hope to share with you. No you cannot change the current situation, but you can change how you deal with it. I am glad you are here.
Beth
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