Yeah, funny, my anger problems went away after my aexh moved out. My level of p!ssoffedness dropped right off. How about that.
Now the sarcasm free comment: Granted, eventually, the space allowed me to figure out that it is better to walk away when a problem can't be solved, than to hang around and get angry about it. Now, the purpose of anger in my life is to tell me it's time to back off, and not time to run in and try to change everything... I did learn to take responsibility and happily I don't get that all consuming angry anymore, about anything.
My aexh remarried a woman who is extremely angry (my impression from dealing with her, and my daughter's details). Hmmm. Now, I wonder what the one thing we have in common could be...