Not a joke. He is desperate I get his ace Codie back so he can continue to do life his way.
My XAB just showed up at my door on Monday. I ignored it, he kept knocking then got tired and left. He will regroup and think of another tactic.
Remember you are dealing with a master manipulator.
I have had ex boyfriends come our f the woodwork from years ago just to see if I would bite. Who knows why...it's about them and they want us to fix it, heal it, console them, coddle ....just like we have wanted them to care, love us and make our fantasy come true.