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Old 05-22-2012, 12:36 PM
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Originally Posted by DayTrader View Post
You posted this in the newcomers area and I try to net get all "AA" down here...... but I'm going to

You're in AA... great. Going to meetings I presume......also great.

In AA, the results come from working steps and applying them to our lives. The situation you described seems to indicate a complete disregard for those steps - especially the first one.

2000 texts/emails.......really? That could be from my DREAM-girl.........and I'd be filing for a restraining order if I had ANY sanity.


Quit making him your higher power - that doesn't work. Quit substituting a relationship for alcohol - that doesn't work either. Start working on your recovery -- or you WILL drink again.

Sorry but I have to agree. Your sobriety has to be the most important thing to you right now. Make that first and in time, everything else will work out.
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