Originally Posted by
stepsforward 
I think the lies are worse than the drinking sometimes. Dont let her think she is getting away with the lies - she is only lieing to herself. Good Luck and Hugs your way you have a long road ahead of yourself. Educate and take care of yourself. I wish I started to educate and work on myself years ago. Best thing I ever did!!!!!
Was going to say something similar. The drinking is obviously what physically causes the issues in the first place, but (in my home anyway) the lies are what cause the issues to become huge raging arguments. On the rare occassion my AH hasn't lied the conversation is over in a minute or two. This is almost never the case though
