Thank you Ann and Kindeyes for your posts. I think I will go to an NA meeting to see if I can get some more insight. I talked to my girlfriend this evening and she said she is having bad withdrawal (can't eat and sleep) but hasn't done the drug since the night I found out about her problem. I just hope she is being truthful. Yesterday after she promised me that she wasn't going to do it anymore, I also told her that if a point in time came that she broke down and did the drug, I wanted her to be honest and tell me. I don't want anymore lies or omissions. She will be out of the military next week and here with me. I think it will be easier for her to quit after she gets home for good. Maybe that is just wishful thinking on my part.