I think you should just go ahead and tell him if it's bothering you so much. I wouldn't wait the 30 days. For one thing, you don't know if he'll make it that long anyway and for another, he's going to have to learn to deal with other issues besides the drinking anyway. Life still goes on. I think you have every right to be upset. Quitting a job can bring financial stress to everybody involved and so I think you both should play a part in the decision. It's ultimately your decision whether you want to say anything yet but I would. Good luck!