So my husband just called from rehab questioning whether or not I attended the meeting or not. I explained that yes, I went spent whatever amount on the books etc etc etc. I went to an out of town meeting (because I'm a private person and like to keep things private, I come from a small community), and without mentioning anybodys names I said I was suprised to see people from our community there.
His response: Don't tell anybody anything about me.. you are there for you not for me.
So this puts me in an even fouler mood because my head tells me ... Well not really I wouldn't be there if it wan't for you......
So I need some help becoming more positive about this thing. My questions are
1) Exactly what am I suppose to be doing to work this program?
2) Do I have the wrong mind frame that I am there because of him?
3) It is my understanding that I am there to learn new behaviours that change the outcomes of the effect alcholism has in our family??
I'm really lost here ?