Your loud excited happy voice made his skin crawl as he is so miserable on the inside. IMO of course. In the past when I was really low and depressed happy people irritated the crapnout of me...I was so miserable I didn't understand how they could be so happy..I was very jealous. It's not about you it's about him.
It could have been a girl at a coffee shop and that would still irritate him except he probably wouldnt have the balls to put her down like he did you.
Never dim your own light to help someone else shine...especially when that people won't even screw in a lightbulb.