Originally Posted by
LaneyT 
I can't help much as I am in the beginning of my recovery and I am taking it slow. I have learned not to take anything he says personally. IMHO They are not sane enough to make a judgement call anyways.
As for the throwing away 20 years would you rather wait another 20 then realize you HAVE to throw away 40????
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This is exactly what I keep telling my self. This same crap was going on 10 years ago-should have left, 5 years ago, should have left. So now here I am feeling stuck and stupid.
I don't want to look back in another 5 years and go WHY didn't I leave then????