IF I made my dependancy PUBLIC, will she be ASHAMED of me??? I know only I can answer that, but that thought RAKES over my mind quite frequently.
It's funny how we can all think of that...but (I dunno about you) I never gave any thought to the times I was trashed out of my mind in public, embarrassed/mortified my partner, acted like a jerk, or had to have my gf carry me in from to the car....
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