thanks, Anna. you are so right... how can i help anyone when i cannot help myself.
i did mention about SR and certain other things like Allan Carr book, i guess i didn't want or feel by going "overboard" with all this healthy advice or pretending to be an angel.
you know, maybe she listened to me... and will do something right. i don't know. to me it was really interesting, i guess, about how small this world is, and how simple it is to look for the solution in a very wrong place...