Originally Posted by
LoveMeNot 
In his case, abstaining is NOT enough for ME! It's not enough for my family and I refuse to allow him manipulate me any more. He knows what needs to done, and it's his choice! He knows it's not an ultimatum, he has choices and so do I!
Good for you.
Without some kind of recovery program in place, the addict never makes the internal changes necessary to progress in life.
Sending you hugs of support.
