Hey Alfie...For me...I had to commit myself to a recovery program and work it. Just like I committed myself to a life of drinking. Working the 12 steps of Alcoholics Anonymous gave me the tools I need to deal with unexpected things that life throws at me...The fellowship of AA gives me the support that I need to remind myself I am never alone in this. I never had any luck doing this alone. Now I'm living without alcohol. It's a free gift...And I accepted it. Be careful you don't get complacent with your sobriety...I see more people get into trouble when things are going well...Be vigilant.