They really do have "radar"
All last week I was thinking about how to get out of this relationship. (I want him to leave, I want to stay in my house.) He's been drinking lots lately. I went to an alanon meeting Friday night and Saturday morning he says to me that if he drinks again he'll leave! It's like he was reading my mind or something because I didn't say a thing about it. He said to give it a month. I asked what are you willing to do about it and he said maybe go to that AA thing. Well I've been down this road before but I think I'll just put it on the shelf for a month because I'm just too tired to think about it right now. Do you eventually just give up hope? Or do you just accept that they will never change?