Originally Posted by stressedwife

He doesn't understand that I'm not angry with him at all. Yes the problems I have now stem from his drinking over the years etc, but they are MY problems...it's how I dealt with his drinking over the years, how I reacted to it that caused my problems. Now I'm on a quest to find myself again. The real me hasn't been around for a long, long time. He doesn't understand it isn't about HIM but ME. I honestly don't care if he continues to drink...that's HIS problem, not mine. I'm beginning to believe I am worth something, worth being better, being happy, finding peace!