I posted the AA Bakersfield website yesterday for you.
Can you call the hotline and ask for a female member to contact you and arrange for some support?
AA Kern County Central Office
Here is a link for NA
Bakersfield, CA Drug Addiction / Narcotics Anonymous Meetings
There are people that would help you...but you have to make the call. You have to reach out, ask for help, locally from recovered women. They will rally around you if you would only pick up the phone and be clear on your request.