Oh does he really think that? Bahahahahahahaha!
AH insists I should live and let live. That I should love him the way he is. That I should be happy that he recognized that the alcohol was so detrimental to us and that he has committed to never drink again.
How nice of him to let you know how you should feel! Please go back and read what you wrote. Perhaps I'm over reading into it, but if someone, anyone told me that I should be happy that blah blah blah and I should be pleased about blah blah blah, that would depress me too if I didn't agree with what they said.
Perhaps you should live and let live .......... and if he calls you and needs help, perhaps with a traffic violation or money you can simply say "Well, live and let live, ya know?"
I'm sorry, I'm getting punchy for so late in the day and I am tired.
Stop listening to him and act the way you feel. If you don't like it and don't wish to accept it then don't. It's your life, which is all you can control.