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Old 04-13-2012, 12:06 PM
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Fandy
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Join Date: Feb 2010
Location: NJ
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I think that the problem is she lied to you again. You can pass the message to her directly when she gets out of jail. It's her mess. She's an adult who hasn't wanted contact until she is in a bind and needs your money. How will she pay you back? If she valued her job herself she would have taken care to pay her fines and obtain an attorney (even if she had to borrow $$).

the longer you enable her the longer it will take her.

i know it's difficult to watch and i'm sorry, but you can't keep saving her, because you are not doing her a favor.
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