I love him and care about him, but I don't think I"m "in love" with him anymore
One of the things I learned about myself in this whole process it that I often confused pity with love. I felt so sorry for her and all she was going through but it wasn't love. I couldn't maintain a relationship based on pity. I tried for years and it just didn't work.
((((hugs))))
The journey of a thousand miles begins with the first step.
Your friend,