It's hard to even know what goes through their mind when they are detoxing and starting recovery. Mine would be nice one minute and then go into this rage over something so trivial. He would storm out of the house then phone me a few hours later and say "why didn't you stop me?" WTF??? His emotions were all over the place. He was not well physically or mentally. All I could think of was God this must be hell for them going through this, but I also could not subject myself to this kind of treatment and had to disconnect.