I hate it....hate it....would not sign up for it again....the ruined dinners.....vacations, holidays, a waste of life.......felt so sorry for the kids.....and the XAH won't remember the times.....well am grateful I don't have to do it anymore. I do have flashbacks but go right to gratitude I am not in it anymore. My XAH drank pretty much all the time he wasn't asleep or at work, so 365 it was his plan holiday or not.....and the $$$$$$$ !It is sad they can't enjoy a good glass of tea or cranberry juice or sunset or dumb game or tv- has to be party party party ! glad I am out of the "ICK" !