Hi broken wife, yes this does happen. 2 days of not drinking, so what is he doing? Is he getting help? I think a lot of times when someone stops drinking that initially they try to do it for someone else, and their resentment grows. He needs to want this for himself.
Get some alanon for yourself, you can't help him with this.
Sorry that you needed to find this site, but happy that you did, there are plenty of people here who have been in the same situation as you. Stay around more people will be here to greet you and have more wisdom than me.