You know what it's funny you say that about the older lady...she actually has NO life outside of AA and goes twice a day. My bf works so he can't do that thank god. But funny you should mention her paying because that's the other weird thing I forgot to mention...My bf loaned her $1000 for her car (he didn't tell me that) and she did pay him back but in the meantime when they would go out to eat she would be ordering the most expensive thing on the menu! Plus she has foster children at home, (which in my opinion she is doing just for the extra government money) and my bf says her house is filthy and she is gone at AA every night and brings them home a carry out! I am disgusted to even think about it. I work in juvenile court and am tempted to anonymously report her but my bf would kill me.