ChillGal-
His recovery is not more important than yours. Yours is important also and if you truly feel that it will hurt your recovery don't go. I have been married to my AH for 25 years and have been through the drinking and abuse for a good portion of that time. I would just like for my AH to reach the point where he can admit he has a problem. We are still in the "Its all your fault, you cause me to drink and get angry, I hate you phase".
Bless you. Trust your HP he will lead you in the right direction.
Hugs
Kat
Last edited by kfa2004; 09-29-2004 at 07:53 AM.
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