I don't think anybody here would offer advice to see anyone fail or harm themselves....Speaking for myself...And I'm sure others here feel the same way....Alcohol destroyed a good part of my life and almost ended it...The last thing I want to see is someone put their sobriety...Whether 1 day or 10 years...In jeopardy....I just don't like seeing that....I think if you were getting advice like...Great idea...See if you can get a seat at the bar....Or....Go during happy hour...It's cheaper and a lot more crowded....Then you might have a reason to pack your bags and leave....I don't see much of that here. You can't make em all happy....Maybe a seed was planted that may sprout some other day....Who knows?