Hey, Fitz! Welcome back, mister!
I'd recommend checking out the AVRT thread on the secular connections part of SR. AVRT-style thinking helped me put myself on very solid ground, and while that thread began after I started my journey, it's a great place to get a taste of that approach and see if it might provide another arrow for your recovery quiver.
They have an ongoing and lively discussion that is now on its 4th part. It all began here:
http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...iscussion.html