I straight up tell people where ever I go .I'm an alcoholic. can't drink but thanks. After awhile you get use to it. Like the Big Book says we can go anywhere normal men can go without thr desire to drink. I have a good time when I go out. I remember everything. I get to watch my fat a$$ brother in law who thinks he's so cool fall on hit his fat a$$. My mother in law hits on me. I was one of those people that never thought going to any event could ever be anyy fun without a pill or a beer coulkd be any fun. And how the hell am I suppose to watch college football!?!?!?! ok. That one still gets me . Cause my dad played at FSU and I was named after a tennessee Qb and they both suck on a regular basis nowmy Gog how could you not wanna drink!!!!!!You'll be ok. Just try not to think about it to much and just remember out of alllllll these people I will feel good in the morning!!!! Hope you have a good time.