Well I was your friend for awhile so I'd have a hard time cutting her loose over that. I don't think you need to listen to her complain about her husband, nor do I think it is good for
her to complain about him, but I wouldn't write her off! She may see the light one day. I did and the moment came when a friend gave me two compassionate caring sentences - and I wasn't complaining at the time
Maybe that is why it hit a nerve!