Old 03-20-2012, 10:35 AM
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MsPINKAcres
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Why would you want to deprive him of opportunity to find his own self-worth, dignity and self-respect to solve his own problems like most adults do ?

What a loving gift you can give him by allowing him to figure it out for himself rather than rescue him!

Granted he may not see this at first, but if he is truly seeking a new way of life, if he wants something different he has to be willing to do something different and this is part of it . . .

YOU are giving him the ability to do that ~ you are not enabling him, you are stepping back out of the way ~ allowing him to walk that path to a brighter, healthier future

That my friend is true, healthy love and friendship ~ what a beautiful gift!

PINK HUGS,
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