boundaries
hi everyone. my RAGF should be coming home in a couple months from a sober living. we have a 16 month old son together, as i have posted that story in another thread. we do not live together, and i have set some boundaries already. one of them being that me and her take a break so she can focus on herself and neither of us have the stress of a relationship at this time. i will set more specific ones as her time to come home gets closer. i know 2 months is a ways down the road, but i am not sure what i should do as far as our parenting time arrangment. i do not feel comfortable with just going back to what we had arranged previously, which was equal time. i was just curious if anyone has had any experience with anything like this. i have been going to alanon as well and seeing and addiction counselor. any comments would help! thank you