welcome skiptomylou
Maybe try turning your thinking around a little? It helped me...
Instead of 'How can I have an alcohol problem if I only drink two or three drinks a night?' why not ask yourself 'If drinking makes me kind of loud, and I get myself in extremely embarrassing situations, and then I make a dangerous decision to drive home even tho I knew I was still a little tipsy' -
(and I'm presuming this is not the first time, right?....)
why would I think I
don't have an alcohol problem?
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